Know what it's like - thinking of you dear Pen xx
Try a low energy hobby to do in the evenings, reading, something on a computer (with screen dimmed/night mode on).
I'm lucky in such cases - when I'm tired I have no energy for overthinking.
I try 😔
It really is a hard choice. They say a certain type of people are hard to let go of. I feel it almost every day tbh. Used to be every minute of every day. So progress can be made. I'm sure in time it'll hurt less and less.
Sorry if I meddle too much. I just feel like I have lived the situation
But maybe I'm completely wrong.
Thanks all for the hugs.
Thanks Alicia and no, I do appreciate your support so I do not see it as meddling at all. I have never been so obsessed about any guy as much as this one and now he's back in my life after 5 years.
We have never had a romantic relationship but there is such a connection it is hard to resist the temptation to keep trying to make it something more. I'll maybe stop posting about it.
I really overthink stuff and now he's just sent a photo it's brought all the feelings back. Like I knew it would if I saw him again. I'm such an idiot, I shouldn't have made contact again. Sorry and thanks.
Please, don't stop posting about it. It's good to talk about. And it's good for those of us who have been or are in a similar situation to read about it and maybe talk.
Some people just can't love us. It's heartbreaking. Hope you feel better soon.
Hope you can enjoy the outside (wear a cap or do you have a sunshade?) and always treat yourself!
Like Lydia, hope you treated yourself. Sorry to see you so down. If you decide to give someone another chance, that's okay, regardless of how it turns out. I've been there too - there are some people it's not easy to give up on, and what might be
the right decision for someone else isn't necessarily right for you. Hope you find the right way for you, big hugs xx
Thanks all, yes Lydia, I have a good floppy sun hat! Back in though, it's just too hot for me.
@Cindy, it's difficult when you have one person who's scared to commit and the other has no courage. Annoying when we have so much in common and totally compatible!
Is that a song?
Concrete Seconds by Pinback
I'm only just really discovering them but they are brill! 😍
I've listened to them a lot during my teens, and I still like them and should definitely start listening to them again. Very soothing. Though not sure if they're still active.
No albums for quite a long time but not sure that they've split totally.
Gotta check them out.
Just chill!(?) Even though I'm not sure if the overthinking is unnecessary or not. Big hugs! 💕
hard to say without knowing the situation. Maybe your gut is telling you something, and it's not overthinking. Why is this thing being a secret? Must be a reason for that. Just a thought.
A secret because last time it didn't work out and so this time I just look stupid again.
You don't look stupid, at least not to us. I'm sure many of us have been in similar situations, at least I have.
Thanks Lydia, I wish I had someone like you in my life 😌
You have, at least virtually! 😁