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2 Sara H
25 Apr 2019 ·
My abuser is out of jail. So much for sleep and feeling safe.
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25 Apr 2019 ·

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25 Apr 2019 ·

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Sara H
25 Apr 2019 ·

Thanks Pandas. Hugs back.

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25 Apr 2019 ·

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25 Apr 2019 ·

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Albertine M
25 Apr 2019 ·

So sorry to hear this, Sara - big hugs xx

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4 Sara H
07 Apr 2019 ·
My mom was my biggest supporter when it came to my jewelry business. Haven't been able to touch my supplies since she passed. I'm gonna try tonight. For her.
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07 Apr 2019 ·

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2 Sara H
04 Apr 2019 ·
I. Miss. My. Mom.
Robert H
04 Apr 2019 ·

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me M
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05 Apr 2019 ·

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2 Sara H
24 Mar 2019 ·
Lost it yesterday when my sister took her shoes off and put her feet a foot from my mom's face in her hospice bed. Let's hope today is smoother and I can keep my mouth shut.
me M
24 Mar 2019 ·

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24 Mar 2019 ·

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24 Mar 2019 ·

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2 Sara H
23 Mar 2019 ·
All I ever wanted was for my mom to love me even half as much as she loves my sister. I wanted to hear one time that she is proud of me. I will never have that. I hope she knows how much I love her
Alicia B
23 Mar 2019 ·

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Alicia B
23 Mar 2019 ·

Hello :) I don't know you, but I wanted to share something. I used to feel the same way. I'm 36 years old now, and in the last few years I've heard the words of pride and love from my mom quite a lot. You never know. Some things take a while.

Sara H
24 Mar 2019 ·

Thank you; my mom is in hospice and is no longer verbal. I'm in a really bad head space. I appreciate your words so much. Thank you.

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24 Mar 2019 ·

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24 Mar 2019 ·

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2 Sara H
23 Mar 2019 ·
My heart is breaking
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23 Mar 2019 ·

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23 Mar 2019 ·

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23 Mar 2019 ·

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23 Mar 2019 ·

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23 Mar 2019 ·

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3 Sara H
17 Mar 2019 ·
My mom is gravely ill. I'm not even there yet and my 'sister' is accusing me of starting drama. Gonna be a bad week.
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17 Mar 2019 · NEW

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18 Mar 2019 ·

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18 Mar 2019 ·

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7 Sara H
14 Jan 2019 ·
My ex abuser is in jail. Huge amount of relief. I'm giving myself a week to deep clean the house in 2 hours a day. I guess saying that here is my way of holding myself accountable. Let's do this!
me M
14 Jan 2019 ·

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14 Jan 2019 ·

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Sara H
14 Jan 2019 ·

6 of the 14 small projects I wanted to get done before work are done. Over an hour left before I have to go to the office. I'm feeling pretty positive about this!

Jeff M
14 Jan 2019 ·

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14 Jan 2019 ·

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Albertine M
14 Jan 2019 ·

Great to see you - and a 7!

Sara H
16 Jan 2019 ·

Thanks Cindy! Big hugs!

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5 Sara H
14 Sep 2018 ·
What do you do when your soon to be ex husband that almost killed you, who's had you blocked for months on FB suddenly starts liking things you tagged him in over a year ago??!!??!!
me M
14 Sep 2018 ·

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14 Sep 2018 ·

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paul M
14 Sep 2018 ·

He's drunk?

me M
14 Sep 2018 ·

I Ignore this

Jeff M
14 Sep 2018 ·

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Jeff M
14 Sep 2018 ·

I'd block him so he wouldn't see your posts and such. Not worth having that going on in your life.

Albertine M
14 Sep 2018 ·

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15 Sep 2018 ·

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15 Sep 2018 ·

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3 Sara H
10 Sep 2018 ·
Now another friend has disclosed some sexually deviant behaviors and is asking me if I think it's ok. Seriously? I'm about to cut everyone out of my life. Maybe alone is better than this.
Sara H
10 Sep 2018 ·

I would agree but this seems to be a trend in my life. Eventually when I let someone in, they're not what they pretended to be. It's getting tiring and I'm extremely selective. It really seems that everyone I come across is toxic in some way.

Robert H
10 Sep 2018 ·

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10 Sep 2018 ·

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10 Sep 2018 ·

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Alicia B
10 Sep 2018 ·

In today's psychology there are no deviant sexual behaviors as long as it's between two consenting adults. As long as this person is not forcing you to do anything you don't want to do maybe just let them do whatever? I hope they are not forcing you

Alicia B
10 Sep 2018 ·

or pressuring you. That would be awful.

Sara H
10 Sep 2018 ·

Alicia - he's doing things with horses, and sleeping with his daughter. Both are taboo. He has a thing for telling me the details even when I ask him not to and that bothers me tremendously.

Sara H
11 Sep 2018 ·

Stephanie, she's an adult and consenting. It's incest; I'm looking into legality on both. Either way, he isn't someone that I need to be around. Neither one of the friends I mentioned yesterday are. He has gone off the edge a bit after his son di

Sara H
11 Sep 2018 ·

*died. I should hear back today regarding the legality of what he's doing.

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3 Sara H
10 Sep 2018 ·
Disturbed. A friend of 2 years claims we were lovers in a past life and he will never be happy without me by his side. He's very unstable and now this. He may self harm if I cut him off. Uneasy...
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10 Sep 2018 ·

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10 Sep 2018 ·

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10 Sep 2018 ·

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10 Sep 2018 ·

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10 Sep 2018 ·

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8 Sara H
13 Jul 2018 ·
Last day at the job from hell and a promise to myself that I'll not be intimidated by a boss again. Feels amazing to say that I know this is a true new beginning. Long overdue. Hugs!!
Jeff M
13 Jul 2018 ·

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Jeff M
13 Jul 2018 ·

Good for you! Good luck in your next endeavor!

Reba H
13 Jul 2018 ·

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13 Jul 2018 ·

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14 Jul 2018 ·

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5 Sara H
09 Jul 2018 ·
9th day in a row people have been at our house. I miss our couple time together. Direct didn't work, maybe I should be more passive aggressive? I don't know anymore. Good night, Pandas.
Robert H
09 Jul 2018 ·

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09 Jul 2018 ·

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09 Jul 2018 ·

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09 Jul 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
05 Jul 2018 ·
Anxiety about giving notice at work has me vomiting; I just hope they let me work out the time and don't tell me to just leave. I need the pay. UGH.
Jeff M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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Albertine M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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Albertine M
05 Jul 2018 ·

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4 Sara H
05 Jul 2018 ·
3am and I'm having one of those moments when I realize just how broken I am. It hurts. Having a raging UTI isn't helping either. *sigh*
Lydia R
05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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05 Jul 2018 ·

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Albertine M
05 Jul 2018 ·

Feel better soon - UTIs are the worst!

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2 Sara H
24 Jun 2018 ·
That moment when you discover your husband is back with the hooker who ended your marriage. For the 4th time. I shouldn't care but it hurts. What does she have over me?
Janine S
24 Jun 2018 ·

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24 Jun 2018 ·

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24 Jun 2018 ·

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24 Jun 2018 ·

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24 Jun 2018 ·

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Lieteke G
24 Jun 2018 ·

So sorry to hear that! It must hurt pretty bad. Sending you a huge hug

Sara H
25 Jun 2018 ·

Thanks, Pandas. I just can't seem to let go of who I thought he was.

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5 Sara H
20 Jun 2018 ·
Emotions are leveling out. Boss was planning this demotion for a month; over a mistake a coworker made. Two interviews on tap so I can make a move very soon... Patience...
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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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2 Sara H
20 Jun 2018 ·
Demoted at work; because of someone else's error. Same money, less stress and not as much dealing with the man who has been intimidating me. Now I just need that new job...I can do this...
Jessica R
20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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20 Jun 2018 ·

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6 Sara H
18 Jun 2018 ·
Mooch/friend has been MIA for 5 days since my hissy fit - not even a text. :) Side note, I have another job interview tomorrow after work and it's a great fit for me. Here's hoping I get it!
Lydia R
18 Jun 2018 ·

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18 Jun 2018 ·

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Albertine M
18 Jun 2018 ·

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Albertine M
18 Jun 2018 ·

Everything crossed xx

Tasha S
19 Jun 2018 ·

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5 Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·
Exhausted, and dreading tonight. I don't deal well with confrontation, and I literally snapped and went off on 2 people last night. This 'friend' shows up at noon and won't leave 1 am on a daily...
Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

basis when he figures out he's not getting a free meal. His girlfriend is telling her parents that my fiancee is her boyfriend, because they don't like our friend. These people have 8 children between them, and showing up at my home daily is...

Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

making me feel like I've opened a daycare, which I have not. They're rude, annoying, loud, and literally only want a place to hang out because her parents hate him and his roommate hates her. I blew up, banned her from my home, and told said friend

Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

...that this has GOT to stop. I literally can't take the stress anymore. I am not responsible for my actions if he shows up unannounced again today for the 26th day in a row. I'm not. Just warning the world now... GRRRRRR.

Sara H
14 Jun 2018 ·

I'm working full time and coming home to drama and threats and screaming children for another 7-8 hours a night, and I am NOT doing it anymore. That's not a friend, that's a mooch and I do not care what I have to do to to stop this!!!!!

Josie B
14 Jun 2018 ·

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14 Jun 2018 ·

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14 Jun 2018 ·

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14 Jun 2018 ·

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14 Jun 2018 ·

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Albertine M
15 Jun 2018 ·

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Albertine M
15 Jun 2018 ·

Hope things are better

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