Hope you'll feel better very soon and that your work situation will resolve itself quickly, too. And cuddle that cat!
I hope you feel better soon, Cindy. Let that cat work it's healing power magic! 💚
Jobseekers Allowance from government and brought my eligibility to work documents to interview, it was a big, and horrific, shock.Have found it hard to tell people, since of course everything seemed to be working out.
As usual, it seems, in my life m it hasn't. Last few days just been in bed, thought - I can't do this anymore, can't do more than I have done, can't cope.
Very discouraging. Hopefully this can be promptly resolved. Pretty overwhelm
overwhelming all the same. :(
Today has been spent in tears after getting out of bed at 3 pm. So much humiliation,sadness, anxiety- and I feel so alone. Trying to find reasons to go on and believe in anything, much less myself.
Aw, that stinks. You were so excited and ready to go. I hope things get worked out quickly. I imagine it is very disheartening and discouraging. But we believe in you, Cindy. You'll get through it. You're so strong!
Got my fingers crossed for you that it gets worked out quickly!
Oh, Cindy. What a nightmare! Just when it was all going so good. But you've still got the job. Focus on that. I'm sure things will come together quicker than you think. I'll be thinking of you! 💚
So sorry Cindy, have been thinking about you and hoping all went well. Please remember, this is not your fault! It is a silly paperwork issue. Try to relax in the fact that this is in someone else's hands now - call if you can to check on it, but
otherwise I see no reason to blame yourself for the delay. They still want you, and you were transparent and brought all the necessary documents. Someone else must have made a mistake, not you. 💖💕☉
Oh, Cindy, I'm so sorry. I know you were looking forward to the job! Hope it gets resolved soon. Reba is right, it's someone else's mistake. I'm hoping good news will come to you fast. <3 Stay strong, Cindy!
contact everyone, and it will at least let more people know and see that I'm 'okay'. But getting really nervous!!
I'm so happy for you, Cindy. You should shout it from the rooftops! xx
Wooohooo!! I've found that exciting as well. But you can be proud of yourself for achieving this!!
Great job! You should be so proud of yourself!
You should be a very proud panda right now :) Way to go Cindy 👏🏼💚
Its a relief for sure. Job or no job, we are so much more. Your persistence was inspiring to me.
Quite an exciting time for you. :) I hope everything will be good.
CONGRATULATIONS Dear Cindy! SO proud of You! So exciting :) Hugs
Hope everything works out ok with the wardrobe. I can see how that would be stressful.
but I need to remember that my expectations are just that - it doesn't mean that if people don't measure up to them, the fault is with them. I know he's happy for me, and he reminded me that he doesn't find it easy to say things. I've lived in UK
over 20 years, and I was never the best American to begin with, and probably some of what I did have has been rubbed off, but I guess I was looking for a hug or excitement - or something.
Aww I'm sorry. I hate when people don't react the way I imagine them, but there's not much we can do. It's awesome you got the job and everyone here is so happy for you. And I bet he is, too. In his stoic English way. :)
He is the Marge to my Homer. As Homer sometimes has to say to Marge, 'I said WOO. HOO. Marge' Need to remember who each of us is, and not wish for something he can't give - especially when he gives me so much in other ways (non material!)
Oops, read the rest of your comments just now, but I still think my comment fits rather well. I'd have hugged you for sure, that's the least one can do. But I hope you're not too disappointed.
Your comment really does fit, Ly R - I find that if I acknowledge my feeling, whatever it is, that helps me to begin to deal with. So yeah, it was disappointing initially but I have reflected on it and am okay. He's really lovely and caring. But I am
still really glad for everyone's reaction on MP!! xx
Aw, sorry he didn't react the way you & I expected him to. You know it's an awesome thing so that's all that matters. 💚
Hmm that must be a bit painful. But good on you that you were able to reflect on it as well. Sometimes people just react different then you want to. But I'm sure he's very happy for you just like us.
and August so today is important to me
Have a nice time Cindy 😊
Yay. So happy for all the good things for you, Cindy.
Hope you are enjoying yourself, Cindy! I bet M will be thrilled for you!
Curious to know how this turns out. Expecting he will be elated
I'm sooo happy for you Cindy!! Congrats on the new job!!! So so so happy for you xxxx
sorting out how I live til I get my first paycheck
Don't be embarrassed but you can always borrow some of my money if I can somehow transfer it to you?! I'm so happy for you your new colleagues seem to be nice. Is it a job like you had before? I thought you did something at university?
So glad you finally get to tell M!
Good luck Cindy, wish you all the best for next week :-)x
Good luck, Cindy. I know you'll do great. xx
Yay Cindy!!! GOOD LUCK! Although I'm sure you'll be just fine!
Fingers crossed this job is everything you've dreamed about. ❤
That is a funny feeling! I'm sure you will do great. Everyone is nervous. I can still remember my first day at this job. Very exciting!
July. Eg how will I pay for the bus to get to work for the first month?? Ah, the expense of starting a job!
That must be stressful
Hope you get it all sorted xx
I hope you'll find a solution. Talking things through with friends/family often helps me find my way through the chaos.
You will get through it
The end of all the stress is near, Cindy. You can make it! 💚
If you care to start a gofundme page, I'll chip in.
I'd also chip in aswell Cindy xx